“I’d rather have you sane than skinny”.
My doctor’s words echoed in my mind as I stepped on the scale and saw the number increase again. I don’t like this new medication she put me on for PPD. It makes me tired and is making me gain weight. Like I’ve been winning in either of those areas on my own! But, I had to agree. I need to be well and my mind needs to be well before I start focusing on the scale.
I can’t help but feel like God is trying to pry through my iron skull to make a point: He loves me regardless of how I look, perform, or how mentally “well” I am. The coincidence is just uncanny. My appearance to people may reflect relapse, bondage, or failure but my appearance and state before God is as unchanging as the day I said ‘yes’ to the gift of salvation. I learned the hard way that personal success puts me in a state of self-righteousness and failure keeps my heart contrite before God. You know, contrite like the heart of David who had a serious thing for God. God is stripping me of myself so I can see Him more clearly.
My friend Beth is doing a Sunday School series on the names of God. Every week she brings a new name and I’m just blown away at how God reveals more of Himself with each name. (If you want to check it out you can read her lessons on her blog: youllrememberit.blogspot.com.) This week she brought the name “Jehovah Tsidkenu” which means “The Lord Our Righteousness”. This was so significant because it met me in the midst of my “I’ve backslidden so far God wants nothing to do with me” pity party (and oh what a party it is. There’s a pinata). My acceptability before God has nothing to do with my ability to get it right and everything to do with Jesus. Let me repeat that for those in the back: nothing to do with me and everything to do with Jesus. My success or failure in getting things right just isn’t that powerful. God sees us who are in Christ as righteous, justified, clean. The very righteousness that made Jesus the only acceptable sacrifice is the same righteousness that has now been given to those to believe. The Lord is my righteousness. This is not a task–to do righteous things to be right before God–but it is a state of being that I cannot undo with my waywardness. The righteousness of Christ is quite literally who I am because of Jesus and the finished work of the cross.
Because I clearly cannot change my brain to save my life these days, I’ve been sitting in this lesson. Sitting in the truth that God loves and accepts me because of His mercy, and my failure simply isn’t powerful enough to revoke that love.